It's from his blog and he talks about why he got married so young. (he's 23 and married at 21) He kept on getting asked that question and I can see why. I mean I feel like I have questioned those who have gotten married early in life by asking, "didn't you wanna live a little before you got married?" He's got a sick answers to all those questions, which really made me stop and think.
I won't steal his thunder by reiterating what he says in his blog, but the idea that stuck out to me was that being a single (and very available) man isn't the most fun I'm gonna have in my life. (which is hard to believe bc what could be better than bromance?) Our culture says that you gotta get your thrill in now bc once the you put a ring on it's game over. Women need Godly men to step up and say, "Girl, I want to take on responsibility and own it. I want to love you the way Christ loves the church, and I want to be a leader." There's pretty much nothing more manly than that.
Disclaimer: In no way am I thinking about tying the knot anytime soon, because i know i need to mature a WHOLE lot more for me to be ready for that responsibility. But I don't want to live in fear of the idea. Hopefully, God's got this totally sexy and sweet girl picked out for me. (please let it be true) and I pray when the time comes I'm man enough to get ready for the most fun I will have with her rather than just me and my friends.
check it: http://bragonmylord.com/post/11958265429/why-did-i-get-married-so-young
Y'all are so awesome that it's stupid
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